Men: What You Can Do To Increase Your Attraction To Women

By Shelly Davidson

Winking (in a Good Way)

I used to have such mixed feelings about the wink. I thought it was cheesy, way too played out and only used by guys who thought they were the most suave and dashing thing on the block. But that's because I'd never seen it done right. I swear.

When a man flashed me a perfectly effortless wink, coupled with a little half smile, it really packed a wallop! The attraction was unmistakable. It's unfortunate that not a lot of men can pull this off without looking lame, but when it works, it works well!

Your fingernails

Women aren't asking men to be the picture of perfect grooming every second of the day. However, knowing that you need to clean up for work and family functions, and knowing how, should be required training before men can date. Having said that, we also love you when you're rugged, sweaty and manly! And much of the difference depends on the occasion.

Having said that, you don't need to have the physique of a Greek god either. We don't want you to hold us to model standards (hey, we like to eat) and turn about is fair play. You will get major points for personal hygiene though. Trim your forest of nose hair and scrub your dirty fingernails. Trust me, it's worth it.

The Nose Knows

The general consensus is that most women hate a dude who drenches himself in cologne. That said, having a subtle but definite man smell is irresistible. Some women (right here!) think that an all-natural guy scent is a wonderful and alluring thing. Hello, pheromones! Other than that, picking a deodorant that smells great or using just one spritz of a sexy cologne is certainly attractive.

Laughing loud, often and with meaning

It's a lame guy who can't loosen up enough to let rip with a good belly laugh when the opportunity presents itself. Too concerned with looking cool, guys like this are just lame. We all know that laughter is contagious and what better way to get your favorite lady laughing than letting your manly giggles rip at will?

We all know that laughing goes hand in hand with feeling good thanks to all those happy chemicals that are released when we laugh. Women will make an intuitive connection between that happy feel good feeling and the guy that provoked all that laughter.

Losing it

We don't want serious all the time (remember the laughter thing?), but at the same time we don't a guy who freaks out on a regular basis about life's stressors. We all deal with issues every day, and we do it with maturity because after all, we're adults. Losing your cool too much just shows us how immature you really are. We want to date you, not mother you. - 32510

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