Meet Her On The 100% Totally Free Online Dating Service

By Jason Watts

If you need a date tonight look no further than the 100% totally free online dating service. They are all over the internet these days. They beat the old fashioned way I remember the dating services in the newspaper. Way back when the newspapers had dating classified ads. People looking to meet others for fun and romance would run an ad in the newspaper.

I do not know how it became so popular but it went from a few pages to about ten pages of classfied ads in our local paper. People would tell a little about themselves and invite people to call and leave a message in their voice mail box. It was sort of like the online ads but no photos only print descriptions.

It was free to run an ad. But you had to pay to call an ad and leave a message. It was a 900 telephone system so the longer your message the more you had to pay on your telephone bill.

You would read an ad that caught your fancy and then call the 900 number listed by the newspaper and then punch in the number of the ad that you read about to hear a message from the person who took out the ad. Then you had the chance to leave your message and your telephone number and wait for the person to call you back. I got wise to the system pretty quickly.

I developed a standard message for each person I called so I could save on the call minutes. The newspaper of course wanted people to call and leave a long rambling message so that they could rack up the minutes. So when I found an ad that interested me I would call and leave this message: Hi I am Brian (not my real name), I am an attractive 33 year old lawyer who is looking for a young attractive young lady who if full of life and enjoys being spoiled...

The message worked because I played to why people placed an ad in the first place. People rarely run ads wanting to give they want to get. And the girls I met believe me sure wanted something from me and it cost me a lot of money to give it to them. That is one reason I do not play the game anymore. When you deal with people through dating services you find people who want to take not want to give. For the most part that is. I do not want to paint with a broad brush. But after all it was my own fault I told them in my message I wanted to spoil them.

I also mentioned I was a lawyer and that did not hurt. Tell a girl you are a lawyer and she thinks she you make a lot of money. That might not be so true today as I have not made much money since I became a lawyer. But back in the classifed ad days it probably helped me a little.

They want to know if guys will give them what they want. I do not play the online dating game even if there is 100% totally free online dating service available. But if I did I would use what worked for me way back in the stone age of personal ads. I would tell the girls what they wanted to hear. Forget about telling girls what you want... They could care less. - 32510

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