How To Get The Conversation Going With A Stranger

By Matt Fuller

For most of us, getting the conversation started with a complete stranger is a daunting thought. Overcoming this fear has the potential for you to create new worlds and embark on new life ventures when ever you please.

Our advice on tackling this tricky terrain may at first sound like an obvious approach, but it's about getting a feel for how your advances will be accepted and whether you should continue or back off.

We've all heard of the smooth talkers who can talk their way into just about anything. But as far as women go, the ladies are clued up to sleazy men these days, and we believe that women love nice guys much more than bad boys.

When all is said and done, you do need to actually approach this person in order to meet them right? Give yourself the very best chance and introduce yourself in a calm and confident manner, it's important to maintain some eye contact too.

A good place to spot a potential opportunity to chat to someone nice you've never met before is in one of the specialty stores such as a perfume shop or a ladies boutique. She may end up modeling her new wears for you to critique.

What can often easily start out as an average day can just as easily turn into a brilliant day if someone compliments our appearance and gives us a much needed boost in self confidence. Try brightening up someone's day by offering a compliment - and watch the reaction you get!

The way in which a person is approached makes all the difference. Just as importantly, the type environment has a huge impact. People are usually untrusting in today's day and age, so it's imperative to make your introduction in a non intimidating way.

If it is your intention to find romance or friendship by approaching strangers, there is certainly a time and place that is appropriate, and think about how your approach could be received, you don't want to come across as a stalker!

Making a comment about something a person obviously places a lot of importance in is a great way to break the ice. Something they are emotionally attached to, for example a tattoo or a piece of jewelry.

Once you master this technique, life as you know it will change forever and doors will start to open for you like never before. - 32510

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