How Long Would You Wait Before Being Intimate If You're in A Relationship?

By Matt Fuller

You've just started dating this special man and the mutual attraction evident. You like this guy so intensely however you're worried intimacy might ruin everything and you need to decide what he wants from the relationship without appearing like your being too pushy.

As fantastic as having an intimate moment can be, it also has the ability to cloud your judgment. When intimacy becomes part of the issue, things start to look much different than when you first met.

If a newly forged couple come to the decision not to reach a commitment then that's okay as long as both people are fully aware of each others expectations. Becoming intimate too soon is a good way to spoil a great new relationship.

For many men, intimacy can be a prerequisite in order for him to want to keep his new flame in his life. As a result, many women are becoming intimate prematurely so as not to disappoint her man, or risk losing him.

And regardless of the mans agenda when he meets a new partner, whether it be for pure intimacy, or wife material, this is something that he will normally view is appropriate regardless of the anticipated outcome.

The thing is, as much as men appreciate intimacy, they have a reputation for not respecting her wishes and values as a relationship progresses. If you are really keen to pursue a long term relationship with him, let things progress in a natural manner.

It's very common for people to be guided by how society will judge them. And who is society to judge you! During different phases of one's life it's pretty normal to be more intimate at certain times of your life. So we say - forget society and live your life on your own terms - and no body else's. - 32510

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