Tips on Being the Man Russian Women Want

By Tony Rockwell

Women like confident, optimistic men. In fact, according to a recent survey conducted by a well-respected International dating service, optimism and self-confidence top the list of the things that turn Russian ladies on. Here are a few simple tips online suitors can follow to be the positive, self-assured man ladies want to date.

Smile and Laugh - The simplest way a man can exude confidence and positivity is to smile and laugh. Online suitors should post a photo (or photos) of them looking friendly and approachable. While some men think frowning or staring intently at the camera is cool, women are more likely to gravitate to men who have the confidence to be themselves.

Don't Accuse - Men who falsely accuse Russian women of being scammers are often bitter and insecure. In the interest of being fair, a suitor should never accuse a lady of being a scammer unless he has concrete proof. Ladies are extremely insulted when men make unfounded accusations and greatly turned off by the men who make them.

Be Positive - When it comes to dating, Russian or otherwise, it's best if a man approaches the process with a positive attitude. Grumbling about the costs of international dating sites and the odds of finding true love overseas is a sure way to seem negative. A man should avoid burdening ladies with these concerns, at least in the initial stages of a relationship.

Avoid Depressing Topics - In the interest of being cheerful and optimistic, an online suitor should avoid depressing topics (at least in the first few emails). The troubled economy, wars, health issues, family deaths, and failed relationships are all troubling subjects that many people don't wish to discuss with a date. In general, it's best that a man get to know a lady before delving into serious and/or troubling subjects.

Smiles, laughter, and a positive attitude will go a long way in attracting a Russian woman. While it may be tempting to brood and dwell on the negative, such behavior will not do a gentleman any favors when it comes to attracting Russian women online. Everyone feels grumpy from time to time, but gentlemen who make an effort to be upbeat are generally more successful in the Russian dating world. - 32510

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