It should be apparent that the combination of a young Russian woman and older western men is fraught with danger. Why would a young woman from any culture prefer an older man unless her motives were suspicious? While it is certainly a question to keep in the forefront of your mind, on occasion they have perfectly legitimate reasons for their preference. How can you tell?
Before you think about what a younger woman might want with an older Western man, you should take a hard look at your own desires. Are you primarily wanting to find a young sexual partner that you can't find in your own country? If so, you may find what you're looking for, but the price you are likely to pay is high, both financially and emotionally. If you think you will be able to take advantage of her, you're wrong. She holds all the cards. If you think Russian girls prefer sex with older men, you're just mistaken.
On the other hand, you may be looking for a genuine, lasting relationship with a Russian and are not primarily interested in her age or sex appeal. In that case, you may actually find a younger Russian woman who is looking for a genuine, heartfelt relationship with an older Western man.
One reason why they may prefer an older man is that they are looking for fidelity in a relationship. Their past experience has made them wary of younger men who have been too immature to commit to a relationship.
Often the fact that many women are looking for a financially secure partner causes us to label them as "gold diggers." That is not always the situation, though. It is natural for a woman who will primarily be dependent on her husband for her financial welfare to seek a relationship with a man who can provide her with a level of security that often only older men can provide. If she is mature and not just after a "sugar daddy, " a relationship like this can work.
Romantic love as the foundation for a lasting relationship is often over-rated, especially by we Westerners. Historically and in many cultures even today, marriages are arranged by families. That sounds cold to our ears, but this is not necessarily the case. Love is something that grows over time, while falling in love often fades and ends in disaster.
A young Russian woman and older western men turn to online dating sites and introduction agencies for a suitable mate. The service you choose will be the key to your success or failure. If you go to a site that has a large number of active subscribers from a variety of backgrounds, you are on the right track. If, however, you go to a site that features scantily clad young women "longing" for an older man just like you, don't waste your time. - 32510
Before you think about what a younger woman might want with an older Western man, you should take a hard look at your own desires. Are you primarily wanting to find a young sexual partner that you can't find in your own country? If so, you may find what you're looking for, but the price you are likely to pay is high, both financially and emotionally. If you think you will be able to take advantage of her, you're wrong. She holds all the cards. If you think Russian girls prefer sex with older men, you're just mistaken.
On the other hand, you may be looking for a genuine, lasting relationship with a Russian and are not primarily interested in her age or sex appeal. In that case, you may actually find a younger Russian woman who is looking for a genuine, heartfelt relationship with an older Western man.
One reason why they may prefer an older man is that they are looking for fidelity in a relationship. Their past experience has made them wary of younger men who have been too immature to commit to a relationship.
Often the fact that many women are looking for a financially secure partner causes us to label them as "gold diggers." That is not always the situation, though. It is natural for a woman who will primarily be dependent on her husband for her financial welfare to seek a relationship with a man who can provide her with a level of security that often only older men can provide. If she is mature and not just after a "sugar daddy, " a relationship like this can work.
Romantic love as the foundation for a lasting relationship is often over-rated, especially by we Westerners. Historically and in many cultures even today, marriages are arranged by families. That sounds cold to our ears, but this is not necessarily the case. Love is something that grows over time, while falling in love often fades and ends in disaster.
A young Russian woman and older western men turn to online dating sites and introduction agencies for a suitable mate. The service you choose will be the key to your success or failure. If you go to a site that has a large number of active subscribers from a variety of backgrounds, you are on the right track. If, however, you go to a site that features scantily clad young women "longing" for an older man just like you, don't waste your time. - 32510
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating service called "Charming Russian Brides". This is an internet dating service for men who would wish to get in contact Russian brides who are serious about marriage to foreign men.
