Saying It, Then Doing It

By Astrid Engels

Love is one of the most mysterious, yet wonderful things that we have been given. There have been many arguments between the sexes. Some men state that they do not understand women. Some women debate that men are insensitive. This battle of the sexes continues, and it seems as though neither sex is going to come out ahead. In the defense of the female population there is but another complaint.

One thing that has always baffled me about a certain percentage of the male species is their apparent inability to carryout promises that they make. Correction, the inability to follow through with promises that they make to a woman. For example: A guy may tell you that he will call you at a certain time, and more than likely he has no intention call you at all. In addition, he may also state that he will come by to see you at a specific time, or make plans with you to do something, and when the time does come he is nowhere to be found.

This lack of sensitivity is quite puzzling. Curious and inquisitive women will demand to know the why of it. We acknowledge that men and women are different, but this difference is no excuse for insensitivity! It hurts when someone appears to think only of themselves.

Does letting their girlfriends know they are going to be a bit late, remind them of having to report to their mothers when they were little boys? Please note: This request to be informed of what's going on is just a form of concern. It's not a ploy to know your whereabouts twenty-four hours a day, and just like your mother we worry when you don't call when we expect you to.

Any men who might be reading this would probably say that women nag or bitch, when in fact they know that women's comments on this matter are justified. They know that what women are saying applies to them; they're guilty as charged.

Remember the saying "truth hurts, don't it?"? I'm sure has been told that at one point or another. Feeling are hurt just as much when a man promises a woman one thing and then does exactly the opposite. That's not okay in anyone's book. It has to do with respect and if you've ever been stood up, even once, then you know exactly how awful that feels.

Any relationship worth keeping is based on trust and honesty. When you're involved in a friendship or a romantic relationship show respect for the other person by not purposely hurting their feelings. Don't create problems where none need exist.

Guys, here some advice. If you promise a phone call, an email, a text or a visit, follow through! Women want to be able to count on you. If you can't make it, let your lady know. This small consideration shows her that she is important to you. It may even stop her from packing you in altogether. - 32510

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